Like many young adults, part of Calgary’s appeal was simply that it was somewhere other than where she grew up.
Carly was born and raised in Helena, with family roots stretching across nearby Montana communities like Pony, Avon, and Elliston. After growing up in a smaller town, she craved something different.
“I thought I was going to be a big city girl,” she remembers.
In Calgary, Carly found the change she was looking for, and she was suddenly surrounded by people from all over the world. Ironically, none of her closest friends were Canadian. Instead, her friend group included students from India, Russia, Ecuador, Brazil, and many other countries.
“I was actually the only American in our friend group,” she says.
Those friendships became one of the most meaningful parts of her experience abroad. They expanded the way she viewed culture, identity, and history itself.
At the same time, much of her college experience unfolded during the pandemic, making it harder to fully experience life abroad and connect with people in person. But eventually, restrictions were lifted, and Carly was finally able to explore more of what Canada had to offer.
Just as she was embracing life in the city, working a serving job she enjoyed, her work visa was denied. Practically overnight, the life she had built there disappeared, and she had to pack up and return to the United States almost immediately.
She thought returning to Helena would only be temporary. “I thought I would be back just long enough to apply for another visa and then go back to Alberta,” she says.
Instead, something unexpected happened.
To bridge what she assumed would be a short transition, Carly began applying for jobs. First came a part-time position at the Myrna Loy, Helena’s beloved independent arts and community theater space, where she quickly fell in love with both the staff and the atmosphere.
Soon after, another unexpected opportunity appeared through the opening of the Montana Heritage Center with the Montana Historical Society.
“I was blown away that I was able to find a history-related job at a brand new museum,” Carly says. “I thought I was just going to be in Helena for a few months, but now it has been two years.”
After years of living in a larger city, Helena now feels peaceful in a way Carly didn’t fully recognize growing up. Her parents, friends, and community are nearby, and the slower pace of life feels grounding rather than limiting.